2 of my rims are aftermarket and have a larger bore and a slight different offset, so when I rotate it I keep both rims with the same offset on front or back.
It is my opinion the precise size bore make installing a rim Idiot proof, whereas having too big a bore could allow a person to tighten the rim down with the wheel off center. If one hand tightens each lugnut in progression before applying any serious torque, the wheel will be centered whereas this should be done anyway on a proper bore/hub scenario.
If the hub took all the weight of that corner of the vehicle, then the wheel would have to fit so tight over the hub that it would be extremely difficult to remove and re install.
I believe the full weight of the vehicle is on the studs, as I can slip a playing card between hub on wheel bore on my original rims. If all the weight was on the hub and the studs only kept the wheel on, then the playing card would not be able to be slipped in between the 2.
I have had these aftermarket rims with the too large bores for nearly 100k miles, and have done some serious offroading on them, becoming airborn more than once. Not one broken stud, no wheel related issues, and I only have 5 lug wheels.