I'm in the same boat as 98Quad, but I have to disagree to some extent. I have been 'milking' this trans until I can come up with the near $1800 to rebuild it.
If i'm taking off gently and gingerly from a light with little or no traffic up the rear I tend to take it easy on the tranny. When doing this I have more instances of the trans letting go in the morning when cold (engine revs, no pull - then sudden engagement) as well as the engine revving high and holding high revs before shifting.
If I just try to forget about the problems the tranny shifts fine (I'm guessing because of the higher revs / higher fluid pressure) and it does better than when I try to control it by letting off to 'help' it shift and feathering the gas to 'make' it shift.
Remember - it takes pressure (engine RPM's) for the transmission to shift. One of the most common Dodge tranny fixes on the 'net relies on raising the line pressure to the transmission. Don't ask me how - I have no clue.
Just my opinion.