I would recommend going with a compleate kit as well. Once you go over 3 inches, more things need to be addressed (control arms, track bar, steering etc.) Usually these elements are taken care of by the better lift kits. The way your talking, you might be better off going with a 5 inch kit. Lifting gets very addicting, there is always the urge to go higher. The 5 inch kit should keep you happy for a little while, until the bug gites you again.