Sounds like what happened to mine. My first gear went out and at first it was just the selonoids on the valve body then they pulled the pan and found large chunks of crap in their, so it was either rebuild it or buy a new one. I bought one from jasper and theirs is redesigned to fix all the problems the dodge trannys have, plus they use heavy duty materials and it has a 36 month/75,00 mile warranty. When it was all said and done it cost me about $3500. I dont know if you can afford that but to me it was worth it, and the new tranny is doin great.