rpounds, I am not trying to argumentative either and actually like your posts, but I can't agree with some of your statements either because it depends on what people are trying to pull. I don't know why, but some people think they can pull a toy hauler full of toys including the bed with the HEMI, I totally disagree and way too much weight or they can pull an 8,000lb TT. If you can afford toy hauler full of toys, you should afford a diesel(now this will bring some ire).
I pull a 24ft TT that weighs about 4200lbs. With me, wife, 2 kids, bed full of firewood. When I pull, I barely ever see past 3,000 rpm, even up a fairly good grade of hills, and beleive me, in PA we have our share of hills. This summer I went up north and was coming home, it was a fairly steep grade for about 3 miles and I was going about 60 without very much issue at all. In fact, I rarely have any problems getting up to 60-70 without even trying or pushing the truck at all.
I think that I would like to upgrade to 4.56 gears and wonder many times, do I really need them? For me, I am very impressed with the power and don't feel I need a gas guzzle v-10 or the expense of diesel. Now if the weight of my TT was more, this would no doubt change my thinking. It all goes to pulling no more than you should with the engine you have. I feel the HEMI isn't qualified to pull a toy hauler or something in that weight range, just like my old 5.2 wasn't qualified to pull my TT, no matter what dealer says. My old 5.2 had to be done with high RPM's and did not like that at all, this is why I traded up. I think what I use is a good combo, anything heavier would have me going to diesel.