Welp its been a long two weeks but the durango is running like a top, prolly the best its ran in about a year to year and a half. Picked up the d a the dealer last Wednesday, still running rough like it was missing. Took it back and told them I wasn't happy, 600 for a new pcm and it still runs like crap. They kept it another 2 days and and called me on friday. They said that they thought I had a valve sticking on cylinders 3 and 6, ( i assume because these were the cylinders with the malfunction when I originally took it in). They ran some cleaner through it and it didnt work. It was still missing. So they said they would have to tear it down and send the heads in to get it cleaned, curious I asked what it would cost. He said 700-900 per side not including machine time on the heads. I said forget it iI'll pick it up. There were no codes after the new pcm until i got home from picking it up. Cylinder 4 misfire, so I thought if they think both sides need fixed I'll start there. So i pulled the passenger side valve/cam cover off. Cylinder four was missing the rocker arm on the exaust valve. Still laying on the head, no scratch pinch or scuff. It never hit a thing amazingly. I got it back in and now it runs great. Thank you all for your help. I would have never thought that it threw a rocker arm off though.